Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Monday, November 05, 2018
Friday, August 09, 2013
Are You Paying Attention? What are you going to do about it?
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Lately I've written about "Random Acts of Kindness" and ‘il dolce far niente’ , the sweetness of doing nothing. Please take time to spend with your family, kids, grandkids, pets, nature and all the other gifts from our Creator you've forgotten about.
Here are a few videos to check out if you still need some way to just sit back and do nothing because laughing, singing and dancing are among those treasured gifts we have been given.
Lately I've written about "Random Acts of Kindness" and ‘il dolce far niente’ , the sweetness of doing nothing. Please take time to spend with your family, kids, grandkids, pets, nature and all the other gifts from our Creator you've forgotten about.
Here are a few videos to check out if you still need some way to just sit back and do nothing because laughing, singing and dancing are among those treasured gifts we have been given.
Have a great weekend!
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Tuesday, June 25, 2013
The Strange Stories Genealogy Generates
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When I was a kid my grandfather used to sit me down on Sunday afternoons and give me a copy of one of the top magazines of the 1950's. The magazine might be Time Magazine (1923-present), Life Magazine (1936-2000), Popular Mechanics (1902-present), Harper's Magazine (1850-present), Scientific American (1845-present), National Geographic (1888-present) or Boy's Life (1911-present). He would quiz me on what I knew about the contents.
Since I was the only one
in my family who loved to read and learn except Grandpa Pat, I figured he was
desperate for intellectual discussions about current events, science or history. So what if I was a kid, I still devoured
magazines and listened to the news on radio and TV.
My grandfather was an
immigrant of Scottish-Irish descent and he came to America
from Donegal County , Ireland . Of course his Campbell
clan had been forced to leave Scotland
a few hundred years earlier when England started enforcing the new
Anglican religion in order to cover up King Henry VIII and his frisky ways.
Most of Europe was
Catholic in the 1500's when the Pope delayed giving King Henry an annulment from
his first wife, a method of divorcing your wife without divorcing her by having
the Pope declare the marriage never existed in the first place.
Divorce was not allowed by
the church. Annulment was the only way
to get out of marriage and remain a Catholic.
But there had to be a good reason and Henry had none except the need to
pursue further peccadilloes with all the ladies of the world who seemed to love
him.
Without an annulment the
death of his wife was the only way for him to get married again. Ironically, it was the death of his brother
that forced him to get married in the first place.
Back in the good old days
of the monarchies when the parents arranged marriages for their children in
order to merge with other monarchies, a three year old Catherine was betrothed
to Prince Arthur of England ,
Henry's older brother and heir to the throne, thus setting up a consolidation
of the Spanish and English empires.
They were married in 1501,
when she turned 16, and six months later Prince Arthur died after both became
ill, possibly from sweating sickness.
This caused a royal mess as the whole succession plan to consolidate the
kingdoms was unraveling. So Arthur's
brother, Henry, who was five years younger than Catherine, had to marry his
brother's widow to keep things on track.
Unfortunately, that same
Catholic church had canon law that forbade men from marrying their brother's
widow. Yet there was a way around that canon
law as well. The Pope could grant a
dispensation if the marriage was never consummated.
Catherine said the
marriage was never consummated during the 6 month period and the Pope granted
the dispensation. It still took several
years due to monarchy bureaucratic delays before they were married. Then Catherine never produced a male heir to
the throne with Henry, just a female named Mary, and Henry feared the Tudor
family was so dysfunctional a woman could never rule the kingdom.
Henry's first wife at the
time, Catherine of Aragon, was the daughter of the most powerful monarchy in
the world, Queen Isabella I of Castile
and King Ferdinand II of Argon, the Queen and King of the Spanish empire. Yes, the same Isabella who helped finance the
discovery of America by Columbus .
One could write numerous
more volumes or scripts on the incredible, bizarre and off-the-wall antics of
the royal monarchies that ruled the world and in particular the Tudor family in
England . The truth about them is far more riveting a
tale than the fiction of Hollywood
screen writers.
Anyway, finding the young
maids of his wife far more interesting and desirable than his older wife, Henry
needed an out so for the second time he asked the Pope to waive a canon law for
him. First the dispensation and now the
annulment.
When the Pope took to much
time to act Henry went out and changed the ruling church to Anglican and banned
Catholics from England , Scotland and Wales among other places controlled
by the British.
A few wives and numerous
peccadilloes later, peccadilloes being the insignificance old Henry attached to
the affairs, adultery and general debauchery he considered essential to his
monarchy, the old boy died. The cause of
death was long attributed to that deadly old venerable venereal disease
syphilis. Imagine that, being killed by
too many peccadilloes!
Now historians point to
diabetes, obesity, or even brain damage from a 1536 jousting accident. Aristocrats never stop trying to re-write any
history that makes the family look bad.
After his death from
diabetes, obesity, brain damage or syphilis his son Edward (King Edward VI), became king at 9 years old and died at age
15. In order to keep his oldest daughter
Mary, a Catholic, from being queen Henry had directed that Lady Jane Grey
succeed Edward. Jane was queen 9 days
before Bloody Mary showed up, imprisoned her and then had her executed in 1554.
Thus his daughter Mary (Queen
Mary I or Bloody Mary) did become Queen lasing only until
1558 when she died and Elizabeth,
Henry's last child and daughter of second wife Ann Boleyn, became Queen.
Queen Elizabeth I, my all
time favorite Queen of England, ruled for 45 years and is often considered the
greatest Queen of England. She refused
to marry in order to assure there would never be another Tudor on the throne of
England .
It seems Henry's legacy
was too much for her. There is an old
English rhyme that summarized Henry's rule.
King Henry the Eighth
to six wives he was wedded.
One died, one survived,
two divorced, two beheaded.For historical accuracy change divorced to annulled.
One of the reasons I thought
My grandfather's
So you can see how King Henry VIII and his daughter Queen Elizabeth I had a direct impact on my family about 450 years ago and why my family immigrated to America. Ironically, while the
For some odd reason reunions of my family never seemed to work.
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